I?ll try and keep this post G-rated. With that said, there are a-holes everywhere. Opps, so much for keeping this content G-rated.
Anyways, these people make small children cry. And they want to make you cry too. You know who these people are.
At one point, they may have said something nasty to you that ruined your whole day. Yes, I think this is very sad too.
That is why readers, I am going to tell you how you can ignore these people, and never let them rain on your sunshine. You will be able to ignore them like how I do with my own homework. It isn?t always easy, but neither is turning in my homework on time.
I was such a sissy! (Note: I?m a guy)
When someone pulled their guts to come up to me and make their first remark, my first reaction would be to get butt hurt. I would be like a big sissy baby about it. Maybe even be mistaken for one too. So what if someone came up to you, and called you an idiot? What if someone said that your life was worthless?
Well I hope to mercy that by the end of this article, we will promise to ourselves that acting such way is forbidden. *Crosses fingers*
Growing up, I had never learned to think for myself. I would always accept what anyone said to me, whether it was good or bad. I was a gullible pig, and I should have been put back into my penthouse, because I never learned to stand up for myself. I became introverted, in ridden of what people may say about me. I was essentially that hermit crab that hides in the shell all day.
Listen, being a hermit crab is no fun. By this, I mean that avoiding people is not what you should be doing. You can still drown out unnecessary things that people say, and acknowledge things that are worth acknowledging. I didn?t see this when I was younger. As a result, these kinds of people got the best of me. It really is a shame.
But let me redeem my shameless self
This is why I am on this path to self-improvement.
Do you also know what some people tell me about believing in self-improvement?
They say that it?s a whole bunch of baloney. They said that it?s worthless, that it?s only for the weak-minded individual. How dare they! But mind you, I?m no longer a shameless fool. I promised myself that I?m standing up for my own belief and self. Not everyone goes through the same experience in life, so they may not understand me, or even you.
They may not understand why I strongly believe in this whole self-improvement ?baloney?. And that?s what you need to do?believe. Believe in what you know is right and wrong.
The only difference that it makes, when someone speaks nasty of you, is if you decide to believe it or not. ?Remember, these people (and thoughts) only affect you if you let it get the best of you because you believe it.
And this is powerful, because some people are truly disillusioned from their own belief. They live in their own world that is made up of fantasy, no kidding. I?m not telling you to go that far into dreamland? Although we can all learn a little something-something from these over-the-top believers.
Life is all about what you believe it to be. You can be happy, mad, joyful, sad, a gullible pig, a hermit crab, or whatever the heck you want to be.
No one can tell you how to behave but yourself.
When someone says something negative, you need to catch this thought process. This is important. Not everyone has something nice to say about you all the time.
You don?t even have to know the person, and they will still somehow talk behind your back. It?s unbelievable, I know, but it?s inevitable. We have no control over them. But what we do have control over, is ourselves, and if we believe in this negativity or not.
Will you let their words get the best of you?
The choice is to either believe it, or to move on. ?It?s really that simple.
Wait, so maybe it isn?t that simple
OK, I take that back. It?s simple in terms of understanding to not let negativity get to you. But in reality, it?s hard to just brush off negativity. I understand. Maybe someone said something that watered down your ego. Well, if you apply what I am telling you today, you will double UP your ego instead.
So I want to ask you this. If someone said something about your mom that isn?t true, what would you do?
You wouldn?t believe it of course, because you would know otherwise. She is your own mother!
If you know what is true, and what isn?t, learn to ignore it, and let that negativity pass by. I know you can do it. It will take practice if you are just starting. Remember this: If you let negativity get the best of you, IT WILL.
Be positive, and be the change that you want to see.
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